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Dungeon & products

What is a slapper or a patch?

What is a slapper or a patch? A slapper is a type of paddle made of rubber, leather, or PVC in the shape of an oval or rectangle. A slapper is also…

26 March 2026
Dungeon & products

What is a sling?

What is a sling? The word “sling” has several meanings. It can refer to an ancient weapon used to hurl projectiles, such as stones. Or it can refer…

26 March 2026
Starting BDSM

What do the letters SM stand for?

What do the letters SM stand for? The letters SM in the acronym BDSM stand for Sadism and Masochism. The Sadist derives pleasure from inflicting…

26 March 2026
Dungeon & products

What is a speculum?

What is a speculum? For many women who have ever visited a gynecologist or had an internal examination by a general practitioner, this is a familiar…

25 March 2026
Starting BDSM

How “soft” is soft SM?

How “soft” is soft SM? Interested in BDSM? Then you’ll probably start with soft SM to build up the experience gradually. Soft SM includes gentle acts…

25 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

The Risks of Spanish Fly

What exactly is Spanish Fly? Is it a magical love potion or just a myth? Spanish Fly is widely known because one of its ingredients is popular as an…

25 March 2026
Anal play

Strap-on or strap-on dildo. And what is pegging?

Strap-on or strap-on dildo. And what is pegging? A common fantasy - both within and outside of BDSM - among men is to be “taken” by a woman.

25 March 2026
Whips

Corporal punishment, or a spanking

Corporal punishment, or a spanking.“Spanking” doesn’t really translate well, but if you had to come up with something, “a spanking” comes closest.

25 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

What do SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual), RACK, and SSICK mean?

What do SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual), RACK, and SSICK mean? SSC stands for Safe, Sane, Consensual. You can compare it to the 3Vs and R5V, but this is…

25 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

Safe word, code, or stop word

Safe word, code, or stop word. Using a safe word in BDSM is important for preventing unwanted or even risky situations. The word can be used if…

25 March 2026