A bondage bar is always handy to have close by

"A bondage bar is always handy to have close by" was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

A bondage bar, also known as a spreader bar, is always handy to have close at hand. It doesn't take up much space and is far less conspicuous than a St Andrew's cross on your wall or a bondage table in your room. But... you can immobilise someone with it perfectly well. In no time at all.

Bondage bar

Spreader bars come in all kinds of materials and designs. This bondage bar is made of hard-wearing faux leather and covered with soft foam rubber. It has four cuffs that you can easily fasten with a Velcro closure. Escape is not possible, because the Velcro does exactly what it is supposed to do: it sticks together fantastically. So your sub is immobilised in no time.

The faux leather and foam rubber do make this bondage bar quite comfortable to wear, though. Perhaps not the position, because you can of course make that as uncomfortable as your sadistic mind sees fit, but the bar itself sits just fine. He can hardly complain about that.

Beautifully packaged

In the spirit of "the eye wants something too", I can make you happy, because this bondage bar comes in a lovely storage box. It is a pleasure to unpack the bar this way and to keep storing it in this box. Maybe it sounds superficial, but I love these details. It shows that attention has been paid to a product. It really does make me just a little bit happier than when something is delivered to me in a plastic bag. Even though the packaging takes nothing away from, and/or adds nothing to, the product itself. Still...

What can you do with it?

With the bondage bar you can go in all directions. You can have the sub sit with it, as I did in the photo, but that is still quite relaxed. You can also make it harder for the sub by having him stand, bent forward. Or use the bar above his head (no, then you can't use the wrist cuffs, duh). Use the bar when the sub is lying on his back (he does have to be a bit flexible and be able to touch his bum with his feet) to turn it into a kind of hogtie. Or fasten him diagonally, or...

And once he is fastened in place... then of course the other toys come into play!

Practical info

The bondage bar has a solid steel bar with black nylon. It is 70 cm long and 5 cm wide. Suitable for wrists and for ankles. The cuffs close with a strong Velcro strap and can therefore be fastened to any size.

Safety & hygiene

Make sure the cuffs are not too tight, so they don't cut off the blood circulation. Clean the bondage bar after every use with a suitable cleaner, especially if bodily fluids or lubricants have got on it. Then put it back in the lovely storage box.

The price

The bondage bar is currently 22,95 euros (reduced from 29,95 euros). In my experience, prices of sex toys can fluctuate quite a bit, so it may well be cheaper or more expensive after a while.

Practical information

EAN: 8714273531971
Brand: Ouch!
Available online at: Erotic Treasure

Source

Text & photography: Mistress Moriah