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Why do we fight each other when, in the end, we all want the same thing?

“Why do we fight each other when, in the end, we want the same thing?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. Sometimes I genuinely wonder…

8 September 2026
Psychological

What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty

What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty. It’s a question I hear often. What do you do if your partner isn’t into…

8 July 2026
Terms

Intersex or hermaphrodite. Which term is correct?

Intersex or hermaphrodite. Which term is correct? Hermaphrodite is an outdated (and, when applied to humans, offensive) term for intersex. A…

3 May 2026

What is infibulation, and is it harmful?

Infibulation is the sealing of the vagina or penis to make sexual intercourse impossible. This can be done in all sorts of ways; the most obvious is…

20 April 2026
Book corner

BDSM Book Corner (Books by Mistress Moriah)

BDSM Book Corner (Books by Mistress Moriah). BDSM is a major part of Mistress Moriah’s life, both as a professional dominatrix and in her private…

9 April 2026
Relations

Rape play or rape fantasy

Rape play or rape fantasy. In the blog “Role-playing: how realistic should you make it?” we discussed various role-plays and their impact. A common…

30 March 2026
Femdom

How realistic is a slave auction?

How realistic is a slave auction? To answer the question “how realistic is a slave auction?” succinctly: of course it isn’t. Fortunately, the era of…

26 March 2026
Editorial

BDSMforyou Contact Page: For your feedback or questions

BDSMforyou Contact Page: For your feedback or questions. Contact Mistress Moriah Do you have a question, want to share something

19 March 2026
Editorial

Copyright and Disclaimer

Copyright and Disclaimer. All text, photos, illustrations, logos, audio clips, and other content on this website are copyrighted by BDSMforyou.nl…

19 March 2026
Fantasy

Like a handbag...

Like a handbag... “Look,” she said with a cautious smile, “men are like handbags to me. I have favorite handbags, and I also have ones I forget and…

19 March 2026