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Anal play

Strap-on or strap-on dildo. And what is pegging?

Strap-on or strap-on dildo. And what is pegging? A common fantasy - both within and outside of BDSM - among men is to be “taken” by a woman.

25 March 2026
Whips

Corporal punishment, or a spanking

Corporal punishment, or a spanking.“Spanking” doesn’t really translate well, but if you had to come up with something, “a spanking” comes closest.

25 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

What do SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual), RACK, and SSICK mean?

What do SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual), RACK, and SSICK mean? SSC stands for Safe, Sane, Consensual. You can compare it to the 3Vs and R5V, but this is…

25 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

Safe word, code, or stop word

Safe word, code, or stop word. Using a safe word in BDSM is important for preventing unwanted or even risky situations. The word can be used if…

25 March 2026
Relations

In the mind of the sub or submissive (slave)

In the mind of the sub or submissive (slave). To connect with one another during a session or experience, it’s important to understand what’s going…

25 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

How does subspace occur, and what is it?

How does subspace occur, and what is it?

25 March 2026
Nipple & breast play

The possibilities of nipple torture

The possibilities of nipple torture. What is meant by nipple torture is undoubtedly clear to everyone the torture or torment of the nipples. It is…

25 March 2026
Terms

What does the role of the dominant partner look like?

What does the role of the dominant partner look like? The dominant is the counterpart to the submissive. Other terms used include: top (English…

24 March 2026
Terms

What does “swinging” mean?

What does “swinging” mean? Swinger culture is not strictly part of BDSM, but you’re likely to come across the term here and there, so here’s a brief…

24 March 2026
Bondage

Rope for bondage - which one should you choose?

Rope for bondage—which one should you choose? Bondage is an art form in which the choice of rope is crucial. The right rope can make the difference…

24 March 2026