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Playing with orgasm

Playing with orgasm. Another word for orgasm is climax. You experience an orgasm as a result of arousal caused by sexual stimuli, whether…

31 March 2026
Dungeon & products

What do you use the paddle for?

What do you use the paddle for? A paddle is another name for a striking instrument. It is often also spelled “peddel.” A paddle is flat and resembles…

31 March 2026
Sexuality

Blowjob or oral sex

Blowjob or oral sex. Is giving head a specific part of BDSM? No, not specifically, although some may disagree. Whether or not it is an essential part…

31 March 2026
Medical play

Play piercing, the collective term for all kinds of small piercings

Play piercing, the collective term for all kinds of small piercings. Play piercing is a collective term for all play elements involving needles or

31 March 2026
Relations

Discover the fascinating world of ponyplay

Discover the fascinating world of ponyplay. What exactly is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a role-playing game in which one (or more) people play the role of…

30 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

What are poppers? And are they harmful?

What are poppers? And are they harmful? Poppers are recreational drugs that usually contain alkyl nitrites. They are often used to induce short-lived…

30 March 2026
Dungeon & products

The prickly effect of prick clothing / sensory clothing

The prickly effect of prick clothing / sensory clothing. Spiked clothing is clothing with an extra touch in the form of spikes. Various items are…

30 March 2026
Relations

Rape play or rape fantasy

Rape play or rape fantasy. In the blog “Role-playing: how realistic should you make it?” we discussed various role-plays and their impact. A common…

30 March 2026
Anal play

Is it possible to perform rimming (oral sex on the anus) safely?

Is it possible to perform rimming (oral sex on the anus) safely? Anal licking is also known as rimming, anolinctus, rimjob, ass eating, or anolingus

30 March 2026
Starting BDSM

What is sadism?

What is sadism? One of the letters in the acronym BDSM is linked to the word “sadism.” But what does this actually mean? What makes someone a sadist?

27 March 2026