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Starting BDSM

What is a fetish, and what kinds are there?

What is a fetish, and what kinds are there? A fetish is a form of sexual attraction or desire that focuses on a specific object, body part, or…

7 April 2026
Sexuality

Masturbation

Masturbation. Masturbation is another word for self-gratification and refers to stimulating one’s own genitals to achieve sexual arousal, until one…

7 April 2026
Humiliation

Human furniture

Human furniture. You can use a sub to pamper yourself, to serve you, to clean your house, to satisfy your sexual desires, or to fully indulge your…

7 April 2026
Cuckolding

The chastity belt - which one will you choose?

The chastity belt - which one will you choose? CB is a common abbreviation for a chastity belt, or penis cage for men; it stands for “Chastity…

7 April 2026
Dungeon & products

The use of hooks in BDSM

The use of hooks in BDSM. Chains and hooks are widely used in BDSM, primarily to securely restrain the sub or as a tool in bondage. There are all…

6 April 2026
Starting BDSM

What is the difference between BDSM and self-harm?

What is the difference between BDSM and self-harm?

2 April 2026
Sensitive play

Nails, always close at hand

Nails, always close at hand. You don’t always need a whole trunk full of toys for a fun dose of BDSM. Sometimes the torture device is closer than you…

1 April 2026
Medical play

Let yourself be examined during nursing or medical play

Let yourself be examined during nursing or medical play. Nursing is a form of medical play and also falls under role-play. It is the adult version of…

1 April 2026
Fantasy

On a typical day at the office: You're mine...

On a typical day at the office: You're mine... The office was quiet when he walked in. So quiet that he had to turn on the lights. At first, he…

1 April 2026
Bondage

Meet the One Bar Prison or Spreader Bar

Meet the One Bar Prison or Spreader Bar. Do you enjoy restricting the mobility of your sub or slave? You could, of course, use a cage for that, but…

1 April 2026