Dirty pig - From the diary of Mrs Moriah

“Dirty pig“ was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

On various BDSM sites, there is regularly a discussion about the terms sub or slave. For some people there is a difference, for others there isn't. Of course everyone experiences BDSM in their own way, and if you attach importance or value to the use of certain words (because it turns you on, you like to play with protocol, or you feel that's how it should be), that is of course perfectly fine. I don't do that myself, but I allow everyone their own opinion, so I certainly won't get into a discussion about it. For me, my sub is generally just a dirty pig.

Ugly dirty pig

Sometimes I call my sub 'sub' and other times I call him 'slave'. Or slut. Or ugly dirty pig. Or woodlouse. Or whatever comes into my head. His surrender doesn't change because of it. Neither does our shared experience, for that matter. At least, not the intensity, but certainly the things I do to him. When I call him 'dirty slut', I often do different things to him than when I call him filthy, fat pig. A slut I don't smear with mud; a pig I do, but then I don't let him parade around in high heels. A pig is not trained anally by me either. Because who on earth would want to fuck such a filthy swine? At most he gets a curly tail in his arse. Then he can wag it nicely.

No words but deeds

For me, the intensity of the experience lies in deeds, not in words. My sub really doesn't have to call me Mistress (which I find a commercial label anyway), or Madam or Domina. At Femdom parties he may address me and the rest of the Ladies present as Lady. After all, we are all Ladies. But otherwise I am simply 'darling' to him. As in: 'Mercy, Darling', 'Thank you, Darling', 'Owwwwwwwww, it hurts! ......... Darling.'

Mistress Moriah

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