Golden shower
“Golden shower” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.
If you’ve been involved in BDSM for a while, you’ve probably heard the term “Golden Shower” before. Golden Shower is a form of golden shower play. Just imagine those golden streams running down your body, or even directly into your mouth. Some people find this arousing, while others consider it the ultimate form of humiliation.
What is a golden shower?
A golden shower is a fetish in which one person urinates on another. This can involve the entire body, but also the mouth. Other terms used to describe this include: water sports, golden rain/shower, champagne, or urolagnia. All beautiful words, but they all boil down to the same thing: being urinated on.
Warm urine
On one hand, it’s about the sensation of feeling warm urine run over your body; on the other, it’s a beautiful interplay of power and surrender. There doesn’t have to be a sexual motive behind it, but of course there can be. The experience will be different for everyone.
Toilet slave
All kinds of games are played with urine. Drinking directly from the source or from a glass, being rubbed with urine, or serving as a toilet slave, where every drop must be swallowed.
Toilet slaves are usually aroused by the smell, the sensation, and the taste of urine. They see this as the ultimate reward from their Dominant. That’s why it’s also called “champagne.” So make sure you know exactly what your Dominant means when he or she offers you a glass of champagne!
Forms of golden showers
There are various ways to experience golden showers. The most common are:
– urinating all over the body
– drinking urine directly from the source
– drinking urine from a glass or cup
– collecting the urine beforehand and then pouring it over the body
– collecting it in a small bottle and giving it as “perfume”
– as a reward or, conversely, as a punishment
Taboo
Especially among outsiders, there is often a taboo surrounding this form of sexual expression. Just think back to when that “sex tape” of a female celebrity was posted online some time ago, in which she was urinated on, and the uproar that ensued. Of course, no one wants intimate moments to be shared, but the fact that this involved golden showers added another layer of significance.
Yet this, too, is a form of sharing intimacy with one another. And if neither of you has a problem with it, there’s nothing wrong with it. By the way, you’re certainly not alone if you enjoy this. Many more people enjoy this game; it’s just not something people talk about openly.
Not just like that
Pee play isn’t something you just go and do with someone else “just like that.” By the way, did you know that if you urinate on someone without their consent, this falls under “sexual assault”? Legally speaking, it’s not the same as rape, but it is considered sexual assault. So before you do it, you really need to be absolutely sure that the other person is open to receiving this from you.
Beyond Shame
For both parties, it’s important to be absolutely certain you want to take this step before you begin. You do have to overcome a certain amount of shame. This applies just as much to the Dominant, because you certainly don’t just urinate on someone else without reason. You’re sharing an intimate moment with each other – something you normally do behind closed doors in the bathroom.
Are there risks associated with a Golden Shower
Yes, actually there are. So it’s best not to engage in golden showers with a stranger. When urine gets on your face or in your mouth, you’re exposed to the risk of hepatitis B or other STIs. Also, the bacteria in urine can cause infections if they enter a cut or wound, for example. Urine is certainly not sterile, as is sometimes claimed.
No Unnecessary Risks
Fortunately, it’s rare to get infected this way, but it’s best not to take unnecessary risks. Just like with other sexual contact, handle this carefully and don’t just let anyone pee on you.
If you want to be peed on safely, make sure you don’t have any (small) cuts and avoid the face. When you can experience it that way, there are hardly any risks involved.
As little mess as possible
Peeing on someone in bed creates a lot of mess. That’s probably not what anyone wants. A mattress doesn’t dry quickly, and you might just want to sleep in it again after this experience. Do you still want to do it in bed? Then first lay a large tarp over your bed. Although there’s a good chance the streams will end up on the floor through the tarp. That’s not really convenient.
Bathroom
You can choose to limit the pee play to the bathroom – in the shower or in the bathtub. The pee can then just drain away through the drain, and everything is nice and easy to clean up.
By the way, there are also special toilets for sale where you can place your toilet slave underneath. Now that’s an exciting game… Your own private toilet.
Outside!
Another option is: outdoors! Somewhere out in nature, where others aren’t likely to spot you. Because imagine if someone catches you – before you know it, your video will be circulating on the internet. Not to mention the fact that it’s also illegal to do this in public.
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Text & image: Mistress Moriah
