A handy list of abbreviations and their meanings

"A handy list of abbreviations and their meanings" was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

If you dip a toe into BDSM, abbreviations sometimes come flying at you from all directions. Of course we already have a list of terms & concepts, a dictionary, a fetish list and a list of just about every conceivable sexual orientation, but that's not all there is to it. Because what about all those abbreviations! Do you know them all? Still handy to know...

Abbreviations and their meanings

0-9

Meaning

69

Simultaneous oral sex

+

HIV, zero positive

A

Ace

Asexual

AC/DC

Alternating current / Direct current - Bisexual

AFAB / AMAB

Assigned Female At Birth / Assigned Male At Birth

Ally

Ally (in the LGBTQIA+ community)

Anase

Anal sex

Anakra

Anal beads

Antico

Contraception

AO

Alles Ohne - without a condom

AP

Anal play / Ass play

AV

Anal-Verkehr - Anal sex

B

B

Black

BB

Bareback - Anal sex without a condom

BBB

BareBack Bottom

BBC

Big Black Cock

BBW

Big Beautiful Women - Big beautiful woman

BDSM

Bondage, Dominance/Discipline, Sadism/Submission, Masochism

BD

Big Dick - Big cock

Bear

Big hairy man

BFM

BoyFriend Material

BI

BIsexual

BJ

Blowjob

BmB

With photo

BOCA

Booty call

Bottom

Receiver/submissive

C

Catfishing

Deception with false information

CB

Chastity Belt

CBT

Cock & Ball Torture

CD

Crossdresser (man in women's clothing)

CIS

Cisgender people - People who identify with the gender they were assigned at birth based on sex characteristics

Clean

Free of STIs

Clit

Clitoris

Cut

Circumcised

D

DD

Dildo

D/s

Dominant/submissive relationship

DOM

Dominant

E

Edging

Stopping just before climaxing in order to continue later

Enby

Non-binary person

ESSM

Centre of Expertise on Sexuality, Sex Work and Human Trafficking

F

FF

FistFucking - Fisting

FtM

Female to Male (transgender)

FWB

Friends With Benefits - Friendship with sex

G

G/Gina

GHB and GBL (drugs)

GS

Group sex

H

Het

Heterosexual

HH

High & Horny (in the mood for sex because of drugs)

HIV

Infected with the HIV virus

N

Non-binary

Someone who feels neither male nor female

NR

Non-smoker

NSA

No Strings Attached - Sex without wanting a relationship

NT

Non-drinker

O

O

Submissive woman

Otter

Slim, hairy man

OV

Oral sex

P

Paydate

Paid date / paid sex

PIG

Someone who wants limitless/insatiable sex

PnP

Party and Play - Drug use during sex

Poly

Polyamorous - Multiple partners

PP

Poppers

R

RACK

Risk Aware Consensual Kink

REC

Recorded

RS

Role play

S

Side

Someone who doesn't need anal sex

Sleazy

Uninhibited sex

Sober

No drug and/or alcohol use

SSC

Safe, Sane, Consensual

SW

Sandwich

T

T / Tina

Crystal meth

T / Testo

Testosterone

Top

Giver, Dominant

TS

Transsexual

TV

Transvestite

Twink

Slim, hairless young man

V

Versa

Versatile

W

Wap

Under the influence of drugs

WS

Watersports, pee play

X

XL

Extra large

Y

YKINMK

Your Kink Is Not My Kink

Any additions to these abbreviations?

It is almost impossible to be complete. Is something missing from this list? You can email any additions to these abbreviations, along with their meanings, to mrsmoriah@bdsmforyou.nl.

Mistress Moriah

Source

Text: Mistress Moriah
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