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Breath play

Hypoxophilia, breath holding, or breath control

Hypoxophilia, breath holding, or breath control. Breath control is not a harmless game. It is also known by the names hypoxiphilia, breath reduction…

20 April 2026
Commercial BDSM

An appointment with a Mistress: how do you prepare?

An appointment with a Mistress: how do you prepare? Exciting - you have an appointment with a Mistress. Whether it’s paid or unpaid, that shouldn’t…

20 April 2026

What is infibulation, and is it harmful?

Infibulation is the sealing of the vagina or penis to make sexual intercourse impossible. This can be done in all sorts of ways; the most obvious is…

20 April 2026
Commercial BDSM

Why is a visit to a Mistress so expensive?

“Why is a visit to a Mistress so expensive? Today I stumbled upon another gem on Facebook. It’s the same old question: “Why is a visit to a Mistress…

20 April 2026
Dungeon & products

Which gag or mouth gag do you prefer?

Which gag or mouth gag do you prefer? It can sometimes be useful to silence your sub. Of course, you can do this by covering their mouth with your…

20 April 2026
History, society & science

What is a Judas chair, and what was it used for?

What is a Judas chair, and what was it used for? Actually, a Judas chair has nothing to do with BDSM, but you might come across the term someday. If…

20 April 2026
Sensitive play

Wax play: About candles, wax, and candle wax

Wax play: About candles, wax, and candle wax. In wax play, you use candle wax to deliver certain painful stimuli; in other words, it involves…

14 April 2026
Medical play

Inserting a catheter

Inserting a catheter. As part of medical play, one may choose to insert a catheter. It is somewhat similar to sounding, but instead of using sounds…

14 April 2026
Cuckolding

What is a key holder?

What is a key holder? A keyholder is the keeper of the key to someone’s chastity belt (male or female). This can be part of cuckold play, but strict…

13 April 2026
Humiliation

The psychological impact of kneeling

The Psychological Effect of Kneeling. One of the most well-known poses in BDSM is perhaps the sub kneeling before their Dominant. Of course, it’s up…

13 April 2026