My BDSM in 2024: Out with the old, in with the new

“My BDSM in 2024: Out with the old, in with the new“ was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

Here at the end of 2024, I can hardly avoid looking back on the past year. A year full of beautiful BDSM moments that I would love to share with you. It never hurts to take stock and put everything into perspective. While writing this blog, my smile kept getting bigger! I'm secretly a little bit proud of all the wonderful things I have been able and allowed to do. Not least thanks to my very own dearest sub schlemiel, who sometimes effaces himself to give me all the space I need.

Expansion of the pigsty

In 2024 my pigsty was expanded with not one lovely little piggy, but two! Both Folkwin and Stuart Little (also known as sub t and Jetje) have joined the sty. And what beautiful, intense moments we have been able to share. Sometimes with others present, at atmospheric Femdom dinners and parties, but also simply with "our own little club". During evenings like these, intense BDSM moments alternate with deep conversations and affection for one another. I am absolutely proud of all my piggies and the atmosphere between them. Hopefully we will make 2025 just as wonderful together.

Unfortunately, someone also dropped out along the way, a female piggy. She was part of the sty for a short time, but sometimes things work out a little differently than you both had hoped beforehand. Then you have to be able to look each other honestly in the eye and make decisions. Fortunately, the friendship is still very much intact.

Podcast

In 2024 I finally started the podcast for BDSMforyou. It had been in my head for a long time, and I kept pushing it further ahead with thousands of perfectly legitimate excuses. But sometimes you shouldn't look for an excuse why something can't be done, but for a reason why it can. In the end I simply made the decision and began working out the concept with the idea: 'we'll see where the ship runs aground...' This week podcast number seventeen went online and the ship is still sailing. In 2025 I will cheerfully carry on with it.

Events

In 2024 I also started organising events. The unique kinky advent calendar is a good example. Never before was it possible to receive an exciting, sometimes boundary-pushing, kinky task every day for 24 days. How often I laughed at the submissions, and how hard everyone did their very best to complete all the tasks as well as possible. I am so proud of all the participants! This will definitely get a sequel in 2025. Perhaps a tiny bit different from this year, because completing a challenging task every day for 24 days, in the middle of all the holiday bustle, has proven to be a bit tricky at times.

The calendar will soon be closed with an exciting "After Advent Party", where we will put the winner in the spotlight once more, but where we (Mistress Susan and I) will also enjoy ourselves with the rest of the participants. Because of course, nothing beats playing live.

In 2025 more kinky events will follow. The first one is already in the starting blocks and will be announced in January. This will be another super fun challenge for the subs and I'm curious how many people will sign up. Plans have also already been made for a unique kinky event in the spring, but I'm keeping that a secret for now too. Copycats are always lurking to score "easily". Of course there will be a kinky advent calendar again at the end of the year, because it went down so well. And who knows, there may be other events too! My mind never stands still and ideas keep bubbling up.

Books

I am also incredibly proud (yes, I'm giving myself a little pat on the back) that in 2024 I published no fewer than three new books: "How Do I Become a Mistress", "Sissy Training" and, at the last minute, just before Christmas, the very newest BDSM book that I wrote together with sub t, "24 Hours". And that is on top of the many informative blogs I wrote over the past year. That I haven't developed RSI yet, oh wait...

In 2025 new titles will definitely follow. One is almost finished; it will be a sequel to "How Do I Become a Mistress" and will appear sometime early next year. Part three is also already in my head, but just needs to be turned into pixels "for a moment". I also want to come out with a new BDSM femdom fantasy book in 2025. In short, plenty of ideas.

Commercial training

In collaboration with a high-class escort agency, I also developed a fantastic BDSM training this year, especially for escorts. For this I wrote an accompanying textbook. My sub and I delivered the training for the ladies with enormous pleasure. We shared lovely moments and met such sweet women. All the training days were parties in themselves. In 2025 we would love to continue the training.

BDSM workshops

In 2024 I was able to give beautiful, loving BDSM workshops. More and more people are finding their way to me and, during these private workshops, receive exactly the tools they need to take another step forward. These can be couples, but I have also been able to guide many beginner Mistresses and subs. I can look back on all the workshops with a big smile. What wonderful, eager-to-learn people I have seen come by, and how enthusiastic everyone was. I hope to continue this beautiful work in 2025. Because the positive energy I get back from it is wonderful! Thank you to everyone who trusted me to give a small boost to their BDSM experience.

Webshop

Just like starting the podcasts, I had wanted to start a BDSMforyou webshop for a very long time. But I'm not a nerd and I do everything on the sites myself. Honestly, I had no idea where or how to begin. In the end I simply jumped in at the deep end and the webshop arrived this year. Admittedly through trial and error, and sometimes with my hands in my hair when something didn't quite work the way I had pictured it, but by now I'm super proud that I managed it. And I think it all works quite nicely.

In 2025 the range in the shop will undoubtedly be expanded further. At the very least with more clips, events and products. I simply managed it! Who would have thought.

Loyalfans

In 2024 I also dived into the world of Loyalfans. I hesitated about it for quite a while, but it also seemed like a nice opportunity to share all those kinky photos and videos. On the other hand, I heard that little voice in my head: "Who is going to follow an old bag like that?" A fellow Mistress (herself super young, beautiful and successful) gave me the little nudge that was apparently needed. So for a few months now, this "old bag" can also be found on Loyalfans. I am super proud of every fan who signs up! The "oldies" are apparently still doing just fine!

Three new sites

In 2024 no fewer than three projects were added, each with its own site. For three specific target groups:
Slaventraining.nl
Mommydom.nl
Sissyacademie.nl

Three wonderful projects into which I can pour a great deal of pleasure, love and passion. In 2025 this will absolutely be continued!

E-learning

In 2024 I also started offering e-learnings. Digital courses in the field of BDSM. Unique in the Netherlands, so I am enormously proud of that too. This was also completely new to me, and setting up this project took quite a lot of blood, sweat and tears. But it worked! And I am certainly proud of that. There are now three e-learnings you can follow:

What is BDSM
Sissy Training
How Do I Become a Good Femdom Sub

In 2025 I hope to expand this offer further, supplemented with instructional videos on certain topics. I am working hard on this.

Playhouse

Our playhouse took more and more shape in 2024 (thanks to my handy private sub schlemiel). It is nowhere near finished, mainly because my schlemiel does almost everything on his own. And he does it brilliantly, by the way. It's all becoming so beautiful! And perhaps it's only a few drops every week, but when I look at the whole year, a great deal has really happened and I am enormously proud of him. It's so lovely to have our own play space, completely in my own style. What beautiful moments we have already been able to experience here.

Proud!

When I look back, I have been able to do many wonderful things and I may absolutely be proud of myself. After all, it's quite a list. In 2024 I gave shape, in all sorts of ways, to my mission of putting BDSM in a positive light and showing people how beautiful and intense it can be. It is absolutely my intention to continue this in 2025. I do this with enormous love and passion. Hopefully together we can make the subject easier to discuss and remove a bit of the taboo. Unfortunately there are still so many people with BDSM feelings who don't (yet) dare to discuss this within their relationship...

... in 2025 I will continue to work on that!

I wish you all a wonderful, atmospheric and cosy turn of the year, and above all a really awesome kinky 2025!

Mistress Moriah

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Text: Mrs Moriah
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