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Why are there so many BDSM safety models?
Why are there so many BDSM safety models? Anyone who delves into BDSM will sooner or later come across a whole range of terms that all seem to say…
14 September 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026
What does Algolagnia mean?
“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…
15 May 2026
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…
11 May 2026
The symbolism behind the BDSM logo
The symbolism behind the BDSM logo. If you’ve been part of the BDSM scene for a while, you’re probably familiar with the BDSM logo. The first time I…
14 April 2026
The Power of Powerlessness
The Power of Powerlessness.“ The foundation of BDSM lies in the balance between power and powerlessness. That powerlessness can be experienced in all…
8 April 2026
What is Masochism?
What is Masochism? We previously discussed the concept of sadism on this site, so naturally the concept of masochism cannot be left out. Both are…
7 April 2026
What is a fetish, and what kinds are there?
What is a fetish, and what kinds are there? A fetish is a form of sexual attraction or desire that focuses on a specific object, body part, or…
7 April 2026
What is the difference between BDSM and self-harm?
What is the difference between BDSM and self-harm?
2 April 2026
What is sadism?
What is sadism? One of the letters in the acronym BDSM is linked to the word “sadism.” But what does this actually mean? What makes someone a sadist?
27 March 2026