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How do I humiliate my partner?
Hoe verneder ik mijn partner? Ontdek hoe je vernedering binnen BDSM veilig en geloofwaardig inzet. Praktische tips, diepere lagen en inspiratie om…
29 September 2026BDSM Lexicon: The Most Comprehensive BDSM Encyclopedia
Discover BDSM with BDSM Lexicon: a highly comprehensive digital encyclopedia full of terms, techniques, play styles, dynamics, and materials
28 September 2026
A new website and three new apps!
A new website and three new apps! You may have noticed: things have been a bit quieter on BDSMforyou of late. Fewer new blog posts
26 September 2026
Why are there so many BDSM safety models?
Why are there so many BDSM safety models? Anyone who delves into BDSM will sooner or later come across a whole range of terms that all seem to say…
14 September 2026
Pro Domme Society is born: building the future of professional BDSM together
On August 16, 2026, an idea I’ve been mulling over for quite some time will officially be launched: Pro Domme Society. A new network for dominant…
16 August 2026
The Beauty of Raw Reality
“The Beauty of Raw Reality” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. There are people who see coaching as a place where you are validated…
16 July 2026
What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty
What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty. It’s a question I hear often. What do you do if your partner isn’t into…
8 July 2026
The Impact of Medication on BDSM
The Impact of Medication on BDSM. One topic within BDSM often remains strikingly underdiscussed: medication. That’s a shame, because many people take…
29 June 2026
Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation!
Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation! If you enjoy our content and read our posts regularly, please give us…
27 June 2026
A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously
A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously. For the past few years, I’ve been regularly leading BDSM workshops for couples, as well…
25 June 2026