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Twelve years later… there’s Lalaland
“Twelve Years Later… There Is Lalaland”. Sometimes you look back and realize that twelve years doesn’t actually sound that long—until you realize how…
9 June 2026
What is the difference between a sub and a slave?
What is the difference between a sub and a slave? Within BDSM, people often talk about subs and slaves, but what exactly is the difference? The terms…
1 June 2026
My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo
My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo. Since I’ve been facing quite a bit of headwind in various areas lately, I realized I needed something I don’t…
26 May 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026
What are aphrodisiacs? And are they harmful?
What are aphrodisiacs? And are they harmful? Have you ever heard of aphrodisiacs? It sounds like something exotic from a fairy tale, but it’s…
19 May 2026
Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first!
Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first! Recently, there was a court case in Belgium involving a 46-year-old woman…
19 May 2026
What does Algolagnia mean?
“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…
15 May 2026
Why pay for BDSM when you can get it for free?
Why pay for BDSM when you can get it for free? The question makes sense: why would you pay for something you could, in theory, experience without…
13 May 2026
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist Okay, this isn’t the most frivolous or exciting topic to write or read about, but it is an important…
12 May 2026
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…
11 May 2026