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What is the proper way to approach a Mistress?
What is the proper way to approach a Mistress? I regularly (read: daily) receive messages from subs and slaves looking to get in touch. They’re…
29 April 2026
The History of High Heels!
The History of High Heels! Wearing high heels seems almost inextricably linked to BDSM. We see both slaves and Mistresses wearing the most beautiful…
29 April 2026
Humor with the Humbler
Humor with the Humbler. The humbler is one of those toys that always tickles my funny bone. When I see a slave or sub walking around with it, looking…
29 April 2026
The ability to improvise!
The ability to improvise! Those who have regularly read my blogs or books, or who have attended one of my workshops, know that I believe it’s…
29 April 2026
BDSM and Pregnancy
BDSM and Pregnancy. This blog post begins with a message I received on WhatsApp from a good (masochistic) friend. She’s asking this on behalf of “a…
29 April 2026
How can you tell if a professional dominatrix is any good?
How can you tell if a professional dominatrix is any good? If you open up Google or social media, you’ll be flooded with women who call themselves…
24 April 2026
Chain flogger
Chain flogger. This chain whip is not the same as the tool used by a bicycle mechanic to remove the cassette (rear sprockets) from a bicycle. By…
20 April 2026
An appointment with a Mistress: how do you prepare?
An appointment with a Mistress: how do you prepare? Exciting - you have an appointment with a Mistress. Whether it’s paid or unpaid, that shouldn’t…
20 April 2026
Why is a visit to a Mistress so expensive?
“Why is a visit to a Mistress so expensive? Today I stumbled upon another gem on Facebook. It’s the same old question: “Why is a visit to a Mistress…
20 April 2026
The history of shibari
The history of shibari. Who hasn’t seen those beautiful, inspiring photos of intricate bondage? Often, what you’re looking at is shibari bondage…
20 April 2026