Safety & hygiene
Why are there so many BDSM safety models?
Why are there so many BDSM safety models? Anyone who delves into BDSM will sooner or later come across a whole range of terms that all seem to say…
14 September 2026
The Impact of Medication on BDSM
The Impact of Medication on BDSM. One topic within BDSM often remains strikingly underdiscussed: medication. That’s a shame, because many people take…
29 June 2026
What are aphrodisiacs? And are they harmful?
What are aphrodisiacs? And are they harmful? Have you ever heard of aphrodisiacs? It sounds like something exotic from a fairy tale, but it’s…
19 May 2026
Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first!
Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first! Recently, there was a court case in Belgium involving a 46-year-old woman…
19 May 2026
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist Okay, this isn’t the most frivolous or exciting topic to write or read about, but it is an important…
12 May 2026
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare?
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare? In the BDSM community, a lot of shaving goes on. Some people enjoy shaving completely - from head to toe …
3 May 2026
BDSM and Pregnancy
BDSM and Pregnancy. This blog post begins with a message I received on WhatsApp from a good (masochistic) friend. She’s asking this on behalf of “a…
29 April 2026
Set your boundaries, because trying to please everyone can make you sick
Set your boundaries, because trying to please everyone can make you sick. It is a human trait to want to please “the other person.” This is mainly…
9 April 2026
Leather: From care to leather fetish!
Leather: From care to leather fetish! Many materials, pieces of furniture, and clothing used in BDSM are made of (or incorporate) leather. Think, for…
8 April 2026
The use of hooks in BDSM
The use of hooks in BDSM. Chains and hooks are widely used in BDSM, primarily to securely restrain the sub or as a tool in bondage. There are all…
6 April 2026