Psychological
The Beauty of Raw Reality
“The Beauty of Raw Reality” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. There are people who see coaching as a place where you are validated…
16 July 2026
What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty
What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty. It’s a question I hear often. What do you do if your partner isn’t into…
8 July 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026
What does Algolagnia mean?
“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…
15 May 2026
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…
11 May 2026
The erosion and destruction of BDSM
The erosion and destruction of BDSM. But fortunately, we alone are responsible for letting the sun shine in our lives… For me, BDSM—and Femdom in…
11 May 2026
True inclusivity isn’t about inventing new labels, but about making labels unnecessary
True inclusivity isn’t about inventing new labels, but about making labels unnecessary. I am writing this as a “white cis woman,” as they say these…
6 May 2026
The ability to improvise!
The ability to improvise! Those who have regularly read my blogs or books, or who have attended one of my workshops, know that I believe it’s…
29 April 2026
The psychological impact of kneeling
The Psychological Effect of Kneeling. One of the most well-known poses in BDSM is perhaps the sub kneeling before their Dominant. Of course, it’s up…
13 April 2026
Set your boundaries, because trying to please everyone can make you sick
Set your boundaries, because trying to please everyone can make you sick. It is a human trait to want to please “the other person.” This is mainly…
9 April 2026