How to give an enema or clyster

“How to give an enema or clyster“ is written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

In medical play or nursing, all kinds of play are possible. One of the possibilities is an enema, also known as a clyster. An enema is a procedure in which liquid is introduced into the rectum, often for cleansing, medical purposes or personal care. Klismaphilia is a harmless fetish. You get your pleasure from the use of an enema. You can have it done to you, but you can just as well do it to yourself. Before you begin, it is good to know what you need and how to carry it out as carefully as possible.

What does an enema feel like?

With an enema, the introduction of the liquid creates pressure, which can be experienced as pleasant. It can even put pressure on the prostate muscles and stimulate the receptors along the walls of the rectum. Women experience this more intensely than men, which is why klismaphilia is somewhat more popular among women than among men.

For men, the experience can also lie in the humiliation. The Lady who flushes the sub, for example because his access to the toilet is taken away from him and he is completely dependent on her.

What do you need for an enema?

1. Enema set
   Enema bag or enema bottle with tubing and nozzle.

2. Liquid
   Lukewarm water (between 37-40°C). For a gentle cleanse, plain water is sufficient.
   Saline solution (optional): a mixture of 1 teaspoon of salt per litre of water. This prevents minerals being drawn out of the body.

3. Lubricant
   Water-based lube to make insertion of the nozzle easier and prevent friction.

4. Towel and disposable sheets
   To protect the surface underneath and for extra hygiene.

5. Access to a toilet
   It is important that you can get to the toilet quickly once the liquid has been introduced into the bowels.

Step-by-step guide

Preparation
Fill the enema bag with lukewarm water or saline solution.
Hang the bag at a height of 30-50 cm above your body, so that gravity gently pushes the liquid downwards.

Positioning
Have the sub lie on his side (or lie on your side yourself if you are doing it to yourself), preferably in the foetal position with the knees slightly drawn up, or on hands and knees.
Coat the nozzle with lube to make insertion easier.

Inserting the nozzle
Insert the nozzle carefully into the anus; relaxing helps with this. Do not push too hard and listen to the body.

Letting the liquid in
Open the valve and let the liquid flow slowly into the bowels. If it feels uncomfortable, pause for a moment and have the sub breathe in deeply.
Hold the liquid in for about 5-15 minutes to let it work properly. This can be difficult if you are not used to it, so do what feels right.

Evacuation
Once the liquid has had time to work, you go to the toilet to release the contents.

Points of attention

Make sure all materials are clean before use. Wash your hands and disinfect materials if possible. Make sure the water is at the right temperature. Water that is too hot can damage the bowels, and water that is too cold can cause cramps.

If you are doing it for the first time, start with a small amount of liquid. As you gain more experience, you can use more if you wish. Make sure "the patient" pays attention to his breathing and stays relaxed, so that he can hold the liquid in for as long as possible.

Do not give an enema if the sub has an infection, bleeding or pain in the anus.

Can it do any harm?

If you carry it out carefully, it does no harm in itself, but you should not do it too often. Excessive use of enemas can disrupt the gut flora and is therefore not recommended as an activity without a medical reason.

Mistress Moriah

Source

Text: Mistress Moriah
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