What do you use the paddle for?

“What is a paddle used for?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

A paddle is another name for a striking instrument. It is often also spelled “peddel.” A paddle is flat and resembles a table tennis paddle (which also works just fine). They come in various designs: wood, leather, rubber, metal, or plastic. With or without holes or studs. A paddle makes more noise than it actually hurts.

Spanking

Although it naturally depends on how hard you hit, a paddle doesn’t hurt much and doesn’t leave marks easily. It’s perfect for spanking. Most paddles have a loop that lets you hang them up easily, but while spanking, you can also tie it around your wrist so the paddle doesn’t accidentally fly away.

All shapes and sizes

Paddles come in all shapes, sizes, and materials. Think, for example, of wooden paddles, leather, rubber, and silicone paddles. As you can imagine, each has a different effect. Because they have a large, wide surface area with a relatively short handle, the impact isn’t as sharp or cutting as with a whip. That makes the paddle well-suited for the beginner in BDSM. You can’t really do much harm with it. Does it not hurt at all? I wouldn’t say that, because even with a paddle, you can deliver sharp, stinging blows.

The difference in material partly determines the impact. Paddles made of leather, rubber, or silicone are more flexible and can feel different than, for example, a paddle made of wood or metal. The latter two deliver a harder impact. A larger paddle spreads the impact over a larger surface area, which also disperses the pain. So every paddle has its own unique impact. Some are even equipped with studs that can provide an extra sting of pain. There are also paddles with holes or small holes. These holes reduce resistance, thereby increasing the impact force.

Where do you hit with a paddle?

The shape makes the paddle suitable for the fleshy parts of the body. Think, for example, of the buttocks; it works perfectly there. Because it usually has a small handle (although long paddles also exist), it’s perfect for use during a “over-the-knee” spanking. In addition to being a good spanking or disciplinary (punishment) tool, the paddle can also be used as a warm-up for an extended spanking or whipping session.

After a few swats, the buttocks will turn red, a sign of increased blood flow. This makes the skin extra sensitive. Vary the intensity on both buttocks until they are both beautifully red. If you really want to be kind to your sub, you can apply a cooling cream or gel to the buttocks afterward.

More information

Whips: Enjoy the beautiful sound of a whip
Dungeon & products – Theme page
Whips, paddles, and canes – theme page

Source

Text & image: Mistress Moriah