Report on the advent calendar 2024 (part 2)

“Restricted by the armbinder harness with cuffs” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by sub p.

This year, the final task of the 2024 advent calendar was to make a silly Christmas video and write a report on how you experienced the advent calendar. I would like to share a few of the reports with you, because they give a lovely insight into how special, fun, varied and intense these 24 days have been for everyone. I am posting the reports in separate parts. Today it is sub p's turn to speak.

Feedback on the Advent Calendar 2024

Advent day 1: theme: Cucumber and drool

Luckily I didn't have to drool over the cucumber. But I did have to go to the supermarket and pay. Now, I never buy Vaseline at the supermarket. So stress: where do they keep it, and do they even have it? Getting over my shyness at the checkout. All sorts going through my head: shall I use the self-scan checkout? No, idiot, it's about that moment with the cashier. Earlier it went through my head: shall I buy other things as well so it's less noticeable? No again, that's not the kick. At the checkout, nobody in front of me. Cashier uninterested, but did ask: would you like a receipt? Yes, of course. So then a photo on the conveyor belt and afterwards holding it up in the air. A bit of a shame that this was just a normal shopping trip in that shop, hehe.

Advent day 2: keep the focus

Taking photos at set times and sending them on in time. I misunderstood, I thought I also had to be a bit recognisable in the photo. Quite a hassle at the office, with clocks no longer everywhere, and a meeting usually starts on the hour. So yes, some colleagues saw me twisting into odd contortions to get a clock and myself in a photo; it was also easier with a screenshot of the clock on my phone.

Advent day 3: Lingerie

Coincidentally another office day. So during my break I went to Primark, Hunkemöller and finally to the Bijenkorf. That was a different story: a large lingerie department with no customers, only staff. Who of course kept an eye on me. After searching I found nothing in pink, only in black. I asked the lady for the largest sizes; she politely walked along with me and showed them. Then I asked whether I could have my photo taken with it in the fitting room (I didn't dare ask to try it on), and whether she would take it. She didn't understand any of it. Quite fun to do; if the task had been a set, I might well have tried it on at Primark.

Advent day 4: Likes

Fun to do, including the stress of whether I was doing enough. And also searching further through everything you have put on social media. I didn't keep a list of whether I did enough, but I think I liked everything I could find, far more than the required numbers. But everything you post about BDSM is great.

Advent day 5: Sinterklaas poem

The poem was fun to make; it's a long time since I wrote one. Plenty of subjects with you, but my writing skills aren't that good. Well, then we'll just do it on film, unrecognisable.

Advent day 6: Nettle fun

Luckily I found stinging nettles, and a big belly for the text (it was a very long text, mind you).

Advent day 7: stylish shopping

Shopping with an earring in/on caused plenty of hilarity around me, but I had no trouble with it, because it shows precisely that I'm not a boring accountant but also do silly things.

Advent day 8: light my fire

Well, candle wax, always fun. A plate underneath, because with a camera in your hand it's hard to judge the distance. I heard the first drops but felt nothing. I thought, okay, closer. Luckily the photo clearly showed that I really did have a generous amount on my bits. Quite a fun task.

Advent day 9: Better with a Shoelace

Hehe, another fun one. I had seen the helicopter on your Loyalfans and wondered what that would feel like. Now I was allowed to experience it. I don't do it myself, but in the task of course I did.

Advent day 10 Exciting fantasy

Another fun task; the deadline was of course also a thing, and so was my personal impatience to get a task finished (a bit of insecurity), a personal problem.

Advent day 11 Burning hell

My impatience played tricks on me here too: at first I felt nothing from the Tabasco, so I just shook some more on. Here too I had seen a photo on Loyalfans and wondered what it would feel like. A fun task. I enjoyed the "pleasure" of it for a long time.

Advent day 12 You are a Dog

Well, here too I had to overcome my shyness, and actually I wanted someone to say something about it. Unfortunately no pink, which would have been nicer for the photo. Bacon neck.

Advent day 13 Christmas wishes

Lovely to do as well.

Advent day 14 Sweet little gift

Well, unfortunately an easy one, but I had plenty to do that day. So during a break from the lugging, I sorted out the receipt.

Advent day 15 decorating Christmas baubles

It started intensely, much later than normal because of how busy it was on your side, and stress on my side. Had she forgotten me? Is this a test, to see who asks first? All sorts going through my head. The autist that I am (it stays in there). Do I still have to go out before it, what do I have to arrange? I decided to message after all (well, may I just do that? You are my Mistress). Oh, apparently it wasn't going ahead. Thank you. Phew, relief.

Looking in the box of decorations, yes, I still have some.

Advent day 16 all the little pigs

A fun task but not completely clear to me (the autist surfaces again). Come up with 5 sayings or expressions with the word piglet. Well, since Google you have the well-known ones on screen in no time. I didn't find that enough, so I made some up with a little wink to piglet and being BDSM-minded.

Advent day 17 Focus

Yes, another properly kinky task. Sensitive, but that's why it's fun.

Advent day 18 true Christmas spirit

Very nice to do. Giving compliments isn't really a problem for me, so that was easy, and I laid it on thick when giving away a little flower. That was indeed crossing a line again. Colleagues I spoke to (they know about a challenge, not that it's kinky) asked: who did you give it to? Me ??? A complete stranger, that was the task.

Advent day 19 Pull until you

Here too the timings were hard to get exactly right because of meetings. For me the hardest task. I bought a selfie stick. By filming too close I really look like nothing but a belly with a limp little sausage. So deeply humiliating and disappointed in myself; I'm struggling again now to write it down. But that is BDSM too. It was also a moment when I nearly wanted to throw in the towel. But because I trust you, I sent it in anyway.

Advent day 20 Advent 2025

Fun task, and just like with the poem, when it flows it comes by itself.

Advent day 21 Whistle it out

Cracker and whistling is impossible, but the video and standing in front of a pole were fine compared with task 19.

Advent day 22 Tap tap

Fetching a Christmas branch, and straight away a wax amaryllis bulb as well. At Christmas I always think of my mother. She died 24 years ago, and I wasn't going to pay 1.75 at the checkout for just a branch. Giving myself a few whacks with the branch felt good, little boy woke up. I did it more than ten times. I didn't finish; I was too wrecked for it.

Advent day 23 Christmas cake

Shopping for the items with clamps and briefs or a butt plug didn't work because I was already at the office. There were plenty of suggestions for baking a cake from the ladies; you just do a ready-made cake mix, only add water, and a cardboard baking tin is included. Well, I like to do it properly or not at all. Nicely with 4 eggs, fresh apple etc. I was annoyed that the tin wasn't rigid, but understood that it was/is delicious. I did deliver the cake wearing nipple clamps and sexy briefs. On the way back my nipples got really hard and painful from the cold. It comes with the territory. All in all fun to do, but too little time. For preparing and baking (though I left the office a bit earlier).

Advent day 24 video and report

The video was fun to make, and I think you could tell. Coming up with what to do and staying original. I'm not as creative as you or Schlemieltje, but I can manage a smile on your face. I also didn't want to go crude or naked. It's Christmas Eve and it isn't necessary.

The advent calendar gives a lot of insight into your creativity

When I signed up for this advent calendar, I really had no idea what to expect. It has given me a lot of insight into your creativity (a secret compliment), but above all I have learned a lot about myself. In this setting I often came face to face with myself, sometimes confrontingly, like task 19 and other videos of myself. But okay, that's manageable. My inner resistance about being at the top of the list: I was absolutely not concerned with that.

Through the advent calendar I received tasks from my Mistress, so I do them as well as I can, with no thought at all for the competition element. Two totally different realities for me. Luckily I was able to keep focusing on doing the tasks as well as possible for my Mistress. Little voices in my head saying “Come on, give someone else a chance”, or “you're in the lead anyway, so what does it matter” came up and went away again. My other personal problem is that I was so eager that I wanted to do them as quickly as possible. Learning to be more patient and trusting that it will turn out fine is a challenge.

Your encouraging words after I had done a task really gave me wings. A lovely addition to the slave training, I think. For me and for your insight into me. Quite an intense 24 days.

sub p

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Text: sub p
Photography: BDSMforyou