Is it possible to perform rimming (oral sex on the anus) safely?

“Can you rim someone (perform anal licking) without risk?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

Anal licking is also known as rimming, anolinctus, rimjob, ass eating, or anolingus. The anus is very sensitive because it contains many nerve endings. Rimming is the stimulation of the anus with the tongue. The term “rimming” is derived from the English word “rim,” which means “edge.” During licking, the nerve endings in the anus are stimulated. Within the BDSM experience, rimming is often performed for two reasons. On the one hand, there is physical pleasure, but it is also a form of humiliation.

Rimming isn’t without risks

In any case, it’s best if the area is completely clean. For example, you can use a damp cloth to wipe it down before rimming begins. However, good hygiene doesn’t prevent the transmission of diseases.

So, to address the question in the title: are there risks associated with rimming? I can be brief and clear on this. Yes. It is possible to transmit diseases through rimming. So it’s not entirely risk-free. Consider, for example, E. coli (a bacterium commonly found around the anus), as well as hepatitis A, herpes simplex, syphilis, and hepatitis B. To prevent these diseases, you can choose to use a dental dam. And of course, thoroughly cleaning the anus beforehand is also a good idea.

The mucous membrane of the anus is very susceptible to STIs, so even if you’re the one being rimmed, you can contract an STI, such as gonorrhea, syphilis, or chlamydia. Do you have a cold sore? Then it’s also possible to transmit herpes.

Risk of HIV?

The risk of HIV is somewhat lower with rimming, unless there are open sores on the anus or in the mouth. If you’re unsure, always use a dental dam or a cut-open condom.

Is rimming a modern practice?

No. There is imagery from ancient Egypt showing scenes resembling rimming, and in ancient Greece there are works of art and literary texts that refer to it. Allusions to this act can also be found in ancient Chinese writings. So rimming isn’t just a modern practice – it’s been done for centuries.

Since the 1970s, this topic has become increasingly open for discussion in our society and seems to be gaining more acceptance.

How do you build up to it?

Make sure the area is thoroughly clean.
Consider using protection between the mouth and the anus.
Start with small, gentle licks around the anus.
Gradually increase the pressure of your licking. Use your entire tongue (tip and full width) for this.
Vary your movements (up/down, circles, slow/fast).
Include a wider area while licking (buttocks, thighs).
Use toys. (Don’t forget to use lubricant if you want to insert something into the anus).

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Text: Mistress Moriah
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