The thrilling pleasure of a vibrator
“The thrilling pleasure of a vibrator” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.
You might not immediately think of a vibrator when you think of BDSM, but it can still be a really fun toy. Both for the sub and for the slave (and, of course, for your own pleasure). It is an electric device – shaped like an erect penis – that produces vibrations and is intended to stimulate the clitoris and/or other erogenous zones. Of course, you can also use it during an erotic massage.
The Use of Vibrators in BDSM
Almost everyone knows how to use a vibrator. It vibrates; you place it on your clitoris and let it vibrate there until you reach orgasm. For most women, this is the quickest way to an orgasm. You can vary the speed a bit and use it as a dildo, but that pretty much covers all the standard uses.
But within BDSM, you can of course do much more with it. For both men and women. Consider, for example: Build up the intensity slowly and don’t start at setting ten right away. It’s much more fun (and intense) to start very gently, then play with the settings, and slowly work toward an orgasm.
- threatening penetration
- forced penetration
- blowjob with the vibrator
- forced orgasm (or, conversely, not being allowed to orgasm)
- mandatory masturbation show
- pampering moments
- extra vibration on every erogenous zone (clitoris, anus, glans, nipples, testicles, inner thighs, stomach)
- secret use in public
Different types of vibrators
Vibrators come in all sorts of shapes, colors, and materials. Their designs and capabilities can also vary. For example, there are vibrators with rotating heads, up-and-down moving heads, extra vibration settings, small vibrators, mega-sized vibrators, and there are even vibrators that can deliver electric shocks, combining with electro play! Incidentally, there are also special male vibrators designed to stimulate the prostate as effectively as possible.
You can categorize vibrators as follows:
The standard hard shaft with a round head. It can often vibrate at different speeds.
Just like the classic one, but with an extra part for stimulating the clitoris.
A super-powerful device with various vibration settings. (Success guaranteed)
This one doesn’t just vibrate – it also has a suction effect. Specifically designed for clitoral stimulation.
This device stimulates and pleases a woman’s G-spot.
Small (often internal) vibrators that can be controlled via an app or remote control.
A double (or triple) vibrator that can stimulate the G-spot, clitoris, and anus simultaneously.
This is specially designed to stimulate the prostate in men.
Safe use
If you want to use the vibrator both anally and vaginally (or for multiple submissives/slaves), put a condom on it beforehand. As soon as you switch locations or partners, change the condom as well. This keeps it safe for everyone!
Always clean the vibrator afterwards with warm water and mild soap, along with a good toy cleaner or other disinfectant.
If you use lubricant, check beforehand which type is compatible with your vibrator. There are three types of lubricant: water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based. Make sure you use a lubricant that is suitable for your vibrator. For example, you should avoid using a silicone-based lubricant if your vibrator is also made of silicone. When using a condom, you should avoid oil-based lubricants because they can damage the condom. The safest option is therefore a water-based lubricant.
More information
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Source
Text & image: Mistress Moriah
