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Twelve years later… there’s Lalaland
“Twelve Years Later… There Is Lalaland”. Sometimes you look back and realize that twelve years doesn’t actually sound that long—until you realize how…
9 June 2026
What is the difference between a sub and a slave?
What is the difference between a sub and a slave? Within BDSM, people often talk about subs and slaves, but what exactly is the difference? The terms…
1 June 2026
My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo
My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo. Since I’ve been facing quite a bit of headwind in various areas lately, I realized I needed something I don’t…
26 May 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026
Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first!
Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first! Recently, there was a court case in Belgium involving a 46-year-old woman…
19 May 2026
The playful fun of puppy play
The playful fun of puppy play. Puppy play is all about the dog and its owner. It is a form of BDSM role-play that involves all sorts of props. Think…
19 May 2026
Seen
Seen There exists a silence you cannot find anywhere else not in meditation nor in conversations where you say that you’re doing fine but there on…
19 May 2026
What is binding? And is it harmful?
What is binding? And is it harmful? You might know exactly what the term “bondage” means, but you might also have absolutely no idea. I’d be happy to…
18 May 2026
What does Algolagnia mean?
“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…
15 May 2026
Why pay for BDSM when you can get it for free?
Why pay for BDSM when you can get it for free? The question makes sense: why would you pay for something you could, in theory, experience without…
13 May 2026