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Relations

What is primal play?

What is primal play? I’m curious - not so much that I secretly open my sweetheart’s mail or scroll through his phone (though I certainly do that…

7 April 2026
Starting BDSM

What is a fetish, and what kinds are there?

What is a fetish, and what kinds are there? A fetish is a form of sexual attraction or desire that focuses on a specific object, body part, or…

7 April 2026
Sexuality

Masturbation

Masturbation. Masturbation is another word for self-gratification and refers to stimulating one’s own genitals to achieve sexual arousal, until one…

7 April 2026
Humiliation

Human furniture

Human furniture. You can use a sub to pamper yourself, to serve you, to clean your house, to satisfy your sexual desires, or to fully indulge your…

7 April 2026
Cuckolding

The chastity belt - which one will you choose?

The chastity belt - which one will you choose? CB is a common abbreviation for a chastity belt, or penis cage for men; it stands for “Chastity…

7 April 2026
Anal play

How do you use an anal douche to rinse?

How do you use an anal douche to rinse? If you love anal play and want to be pleasured anally with (for example) a strap-on, it’s important that you…

2 April 2026
Medical play

Do you also use a needle in Needle Play?

Do you also use a needle in Needle Play? Needle play is a part of nursing or medical play, play piercing, and/or blood play. The name says it all…

2 April 2026
Sensitive play

Nails, always close at hand

Nails, always close at hand. You don’t always need a whole trunk full of toys for a fun dose of BDSM. Sometimes the torture device is closer than you…

1 April 2026
Bondage

What is a nose hook used for?

What is a nose hook used for? The nose hook can be used in a specific type of bondage. It allows you to force the head backward. This is quite…

1 April 2026
Medical play

Let yourself be examined during nursing or medical play

Let yourself be examined during nursing or medical play. Nursing is a form of medical play and also falls under role-play. It is the adult version of…

1 April 2026