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A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously
A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously. For the past few years, I’ve been regularly leading BDSM workshops for couples, as well…
25 June 2026
What is the difference between a sub and a slave?
What is the difference between a sub and a slave? Within BDSM, people often talk about subs and slaves, but what exactly is the difference? The terms…
1 June 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026
Erotic Power Exchange of EPE
We’ve previously discussed the term TPE (Total Power Exchange), but there’s also EPE, which stands for Erotic Power Exchange. This is sometimes also…
11 May 2026
What is primal play?
What is primal play? I’m curious - not so much that I secretly open my sweetheart’s mail or scroll through his phone (though I certainly do that…
7 April 2026
Discover the fascinating world of ponyplay
Discover the fascinating world of ponyplay. What exactly is ponyplay? Ponyplay is a role-playing game in which one (or more) people play the role of…
30 March 2026
Rape play or rape fantasy
Rape play or rape fantasy. In the blog “Role-playing: how realistic should you make it?” we discussed various role-plays and their impact. A common…
30 March 2026
When role-playing, how realistic should you make it?
When role-playing, how realistic should you make it?
28 March 2026
In the mind of the sub or submissive (slave)
In the mind of the sub or submissive (slave). To connect with one another during a session or experience, it’s important to understand what’s going…
25 March 2026
What exactly is a switch?
What exactly is a switch? In addition to the specific roles in BDSM such as dominant and submissive, there is also the role of the switch (also known…
24 March 2026