Playing
Stitching: What Is It, Anyway?
Stitching: What Is It, Anyway? Stitching is a form of medical play in which the skin is superficially sutured, without medical necessity and without…
4 July 2026
A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously
A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously. For the past few years, I’ve been regularly leading BDSM workshops for couples, as well…
25 June 2026
What is the difference between a sub and a slave?
What is the difference between a sub and a slave? Within BDSM, people often talk about subs and slaves, but what exactly is the difference? The terms…
1 June 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026
The playful fun of puppy play
The playful fun of puppy play. Puppy play is all about the dog and its owner. It is a form of BDSM role-play that involves all sorts of props. Think…
19 May 2026
What is binding? And is it harmful?
What is binding? And is it harmful? You might know exactly what the term “bondage” means, but you might also have absolutely no idea. I’d be happy to…
18 May 2026
What does Algolagnia mean?
“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…
15 May 2026
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist Okay, this isn’t the most frivolous or exciting topic to write or read about, but it is an important…
12 May 2026
The sense of security at Ageplay
The sense of security at Ageplay. Ageplay is also a sensitive topic within the BDSM scene (completely unjustifiably). For some, it rubs too closely…
12 May 2026
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…
11 May 2026