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The intense sensation of plastic wrap bondage
The intense sensation of plastic wrap bondage. When you think of bondage, you might immediately think of rope or, perhaps secondarily, leather…
3 May 2026
How exactly do you tie a hogtie?
How exactly do you tie a hogtie? A “hogtie” is a technique used in rope bondage in which a person’s hands and feet are tied together behind their…
29 April 2026
What is the proper way to approach a Mistress?
What is the proper way to approach a Mistress? I regularly (read: daily) receive messages from subs and slaves looking to get in touch. They’re…
29 April 2026
The History of High Heels!
The History of High Heels! Wearing high heels seems almost inextricably linked to BDSM. We see both slaves and Mistresses wearing the most beautiful…
29 April 2026
Humor with the Humbler
Humor with the Humbler. The humbler is one of those toys that always tickles my funny bone. When I see a slave or sub walking around with it, looking…
29 April 2026
What is a Karwats?
What is a Karwats? A Karwats? A karwats is a type of whip with a short handle and a long, flexible strap or cord. It is traditionally used for…
29 April 2026
What is infantilism, and is it related to pedophilia?
What is infantilism, and is it related to pedophilia? Infantilism is the experience of pleasurable sensations by behaving like a child and then being…
29 April 2026
Temperature Play: The Game of Heat and Cold
Temperature Play: The Game of Heat and Cold. Temperature play is an intense sensory game in which you play with heat and cold. It can be so intense…
29 April 2026
Chain flogger
Chain flogger. This chain whip is not the same as the tool used by a bicycle mechanic to remove the cassette (rear sprockets) from a bicycle. By…
20 April 2026
Hypoxophilia, breath holding, or breath control
Hypoxophilia, breath holding, or breath control. Breath control is not a harmless game. It is also known by the names hypoxiphilia, breath reduction…
20 April 2026