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Wax play: About candles, wax, and candle wax
Wax play: About candles, wax, and candle wax. In wax play, you use candle wax to deliver certain painful stimuli; in other words, it involves…
14 April 2026
Inserting a catheter
Inserting a catheter. As part of medical play, one may choose to insert a catheter. It is somewhat similar to sounding, but instead of using sounds…
14 April 2026
The Impact of Tickling: Laughter Is Good for You!
The Impact of Tickling: Laughter Is Good for You! I can often throw even the most hardcore masochist off balance simply by tickling them. Gently…
14 April 2026
What is a key holder?
What is a key holder? A keyholder is the keeper of the key to someone’s chastity belt (male or female). This can be part of cuckold play, but strict…
13 April 2026
The psychological impact of kneeling
The Psychological Effect of Kneeling. One of the most well-known poses in BDSM is perhaps the sub kneeling before their Dominant. Of course, it’s up…
13 April 2026
Knife play, the thrilling knife game
Knife play, the thrilling knife game. When I first met my slave a few years ago, she was completely new to BDSM. She had no idea what her kinks were…
13 April 2026
What is chastity? And just how exciting can it be?
What is chastity? And just how exciting can it be? Chastity refers to the virtue of abstaining from sexual acts outside the context of marriage…
9 April 2026
Sweet surprises, for a change
Sweet surprises, for a change.
8 April 2026
What sexual orientations are there today?
Which sexual orientations exist nowadays? A few years ago, it all seemed quite simple. You were straight, gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Oh wait, and…
8 April 2026
The Power of Powerlessness
The Power of Powerlessness.“ The foundation of BDSM lies in the balance between power and powerlessness. That powerlessness can be experienced in all…
8 April 2026