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Abrasion or Arasion, a sanded sensation

Abrasion or Arasion, a sanded sensation. Have you ever heard of the term abrasion or arasion? I rarely come across the term myself. In fact, in all…

11 May 2026
Relations

Erotic Power Exchange of EPE

We’ve previously discussed the term TPE (Total Power Exchange), but there’s also EPE, which stands for Erotic Power Exchange. This is sometimes also…

11 May 2026
Fetish & kinks

Exhibitionism and Voyeurism: The Tension Between Seeing and Being Seen

Exhibitionism and voyeurism take the concept of seeing and being seen to the next level. The terms are often mentioned in the same breath, but they…

11 May 2026
Femdom

Face-sitting, with your butt right on the tip of his nose

Face-sitting, with your butt right on the tip of his nose. Facesitting (smothering), also known as queening or kinging, is a combination of…

11 May 2026
Dungeon & products

Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps

Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps. You don’t make some things because you have to. Some things come about because you’re missing…

9 May 2026
Anal play

The most important ins and outs of fisting

The most important ins and outs of fisting. You’ve probably heard the terms “fisting,” “fistfucking,” or “fist-fucking” before. It’s a sexual act in…

4 May 2026
Whips

A great warm-up whip: the flogger!

A great warm-up whip: the flogger! The very first whip I ever bought was a small flogger. I thought I’d start off nice and soft, but in hindsight…

4 May 2026
Dungeon & products

Discover the gas mask in BDSM

Discover the gas mask in BDSM. Masks are widely used in BDSM. But there are masks, there are intense masks, and then there’s the gas mask. I have to…

3 May 2026
Dungeon & products

What is the purpose of Geisha love balls?

What is the purpose of Geisha love balls? Geisha love balls are small (metal) balls, also known as ben-wa balls, love balls, or pleasure balls. The…

3 May 2026
Femdom

Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare?

Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare? In the BDSM community, a lot of shaving goes on. Some people enjoy shaving completely - from head to toe …

3 May 2026