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Abrasion or Arasion, a sanded sensation
Abrasion or Arasion, a sanded sensation. Have you ever heard of the term abrasion or arasion? I rarely come across the term myself. In fact, in all…
11 May 2026
Erotic Power Exchange of EPE
We’ve previously discussed the term TPE (Total Power Exchange), but there’s also EPE, which stands for Erotic Power Exchange. This is sometimes also…
11 May 2026
Exhibitionism and Voyeurism: The Tension Between Seeing and Being Seen
Exhibitionism and voyeurism take the concept of seeing and being seen to the next level. The terms are often mentioned in the same breath, but they…
11 May 2026
Face-sitting, with your butt right on the tip of his nose
Face-sitting, with your butt right on the tip of his nose. Facesitting (smothering), also known as queening or kinging, is a combination of…
11 May 2026
Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps
Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps. You don’t make some things because you have to. Some things come about because you’re missing…
9 May 2026
The most important ins and outs of fisting
The most important ins and outs of fisting. You’ve probably heard the terms “fisting,” “fistfucking,” or “fist-fucking” before. It’s a sexual act in…
4 May 2026
A great warm-up whip: the flogger!
A great warm-up whip: the flogger! The very first whip I ever bought was a small flogger. I thought I’d start off nice and soft, but in hindsight…
4 May 2026
Discover the gas mask in BDSM
Discover the gas mask in BDSM. Masks are widely used in BDSM. But there are masks, there are intense masks, and then there’s the gas mask. I have to…
3 May 2026
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls?
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls? Geisha love balls are small (metal) balls, also known as ben-wa balls, love balls, or pleasure balls. The…
3 May 2026
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare?
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare? In the BDSM community, a lot of shaving goes on. Some people enjoy shaving completely - from head to toe …
3 May 2026