What is the purpose of Geisha love balls?

“What is the purpose of Geisha love balls?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

Geisha love balls are small (metal) balls, also known as ben-wa balls, love balls, or pleasure balls. The original balls were about two centimeters in size and inserted loose into the vagina. In the modern version, the balls are sometimes strung on a string. During penetration, the balls are held in place. At that moment, the balls provide an extra thrill for both the man and the woman.

Pelvic floor training!

The balls can also be used during role-play. If you don’t tighten your pelvic floor, the balls will roll out… The result of this tightening is that an orgasm is intensified by contracting and relaxing the muscles. If you’re being penetrated at the same time, the man will enjoy it too, because the vagina grips the penis more tightly.

Origin of the name Geisha love balls

The Geisha love balls owe their name to the fact that these balls were indeed used by geishas to please men even more. The original balls were usually smaller and made of gold, silver, or other precious metals. The balls are hollow with a small weight inside, which allows the ball to roll. It is claimed that skilled geishas, with muscles trained in this way, can bring men to ecstasy.

How do Geisha love balls work?

You insert the balls into the vagina. Use some lubricant if it feels a bit tight. Make sure they rest on top of the pelvic floor muscle (roughly where your tampon would sit). Due to the weight of the balls, combined with gravity, the balls will try to escape from the vagina. To prevent this, you must contract your pelvic floor muscles. This stimulates the pelvic floor muscles. Training these muscles can enhance pleasure during sex.

You can simply do the exercises during the day, while you’re going about your business. However, don’t do them for longer than half an hour. A longer session can cause the pelvic floor muscles to become tense and lead to discomfort.

Multiple Uses

You can use them as foreplay for an exciting evening or indeed as a way to train your pelvic floor muscles after childbirth or if you experience urinary incontinence later in life. Women of a certain age or after childbirth may sometimes find that they can no longer fully control their bladder, resulting in urinary incontinence when sneezing, coughing, or laughing. Training the pelvic floor muscles can also help restore bladder control.

Types and Sizes

Geisha love balls are available in various sizes, weights, and with or without vibration. As you can imagine, the smaller the ball, the harder it is to keep it inside (and thus the more intense the workout). Heavier balls are also more challenging.

The smaller balls have a diameter of about 2 cm, while larger ones can reach a diameter of about 4.5 to 5 cm. There are vibrating balls, duotone balls, magnetic balls (great for beginners), and Kegel balls.

Are you a beginner? Then start with lighter balls and gradually increase the weight.

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Text & images: Mistress Moriah