BDSM

Why do we fight each other when, in the end, we all want the same thing?

“Why do we fight each other when, in the end, we want the same thing?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. Sometimes I genuinely wonder…

8 September 2026

Safety & hygiene

The Impact of Medication on BDSM

The Impact of Medication on BDSM. One topic within BDSM often remains strikingly underdiscussed: medication. That’s a shame, because many people take…

29 June 2026

Blog

Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation!

Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation! If you enjoy our content and read our posts regularly, please give us…

27 June 2026

Blog

My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo

My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo. Since I’ve been facing quite a bit of headwind in various areas lately, I realized I needed something I don’t…

26 May 2026

Starting BDSM

True BDSM is always about reciprocity

True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…

19 May 2026

Safety & hygiene

Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first!

Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first! Recently, there was a court case in Belgium involving a 46-year-old woman…

19 May 2026