Dildo or artificial cock

“Dildo or artificial cock“ was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

A dildo, or artificial cock, turns up regularly in the BDSM scene. In the LGBTQ+ community, the word "artificial cock" is not done for some lesbians, let alone one with a glans on it. Even though you'd think, there's no light on in the vagina, so who's going to notice? Dildos come in many shapes and sizes and they're certainly not just a modern thing. Dildos have been used for a very long time. Probably for more than 2,000 years.

Vaginal, anal and oral

Incidentally, dildos aren't only used by women, but just as much by men. Dildos can be used both vaginally and anally. And of course orally too. After all, it happens regularly that, as a man or woman, you get blowjob training. Or that, after a dildo has been in the vagina, you have to lick it clean. With anal use, this isn't really advisable, given the E. coli bacteria.

Sometimes it is thought - especially in vanilla relationships - that the woman doesn't need any toys because she has a man. A nice bit of masturbation with your partner present, or not, can be just as exciting and arousing.

Materials

Dildos are available in various materials, but do choose a dildo made of a soft material. Hard plastic quickly becomes irritating. Glass is of course also a lovely option. You may be afraid it will break, but that really doesn't happen easily. Unless you do really crazy, wild things.

If you really love warm materials, wooden dildos are of course beautiful to have, even as an art object. And let's not forget the stainless steel dildo, with which, just like with glass, you can do temperature play. Very exciting for the receiver. You get a lovely contrast in sensation in the part where the dildo goes in.

Silicone dildos are popular because of the soft material and because the dildo quickly adapts to body temperature. Rubber dildos are less popular, because they are a bit harder to clean as the material is often somewhat porous.

Types of dildos

There are different types of dildos, for example the strap-on dildo, much loved by men who enjoy pegging. But it can also be used as humiliation, because you decide your sub isn't allowed to fuck you with his cock, but has to put his cock into a hollow strap-on dildo before he is allowed, or made, to enter you. There are also realistic dildos that look like a real cock, complete with veins, a glans and sometimes you even see them with balls attached.

You only have to visit a webshop and you'll see the most colourful dildos that simply look like what they are meant for. A double dildo can also be a lot of fun. You can use it either with two people or alone. It demands a bit of flexibility, but once you're busy with the double dildo together, it can get very exciting or you'll be doubled over with laughter.

All sorts of sizes

Dildos or artificial cocks come in different sizes, in both length and thickness, depending on your preference. Or on where your Dom wants to stretch your holes, bigger for use and pleasure. And let's certainly not forget the fist dildo. With that you can be sure the stretching will work. Even on your own.

There are also dildos that can be fixed to the mouth, or to the knee. And with a bit of creativity you can come up with something fun yourself.

Use

Make sure your dildo is properly clean before you put it into a hole. And if your vagina isn't wet, use some lubricant. For anal use it is definitely advisable to use lubricant. And don't ram the dildo in all at once, but do it gradually. Then keep moving it back and forth a little at a time until you notice there is no more resistance. And then you can really go to town. If you're doing it to yourself, you'll soon enough notice whether it becomes painful. If you are the "fucker", don't go wild like a madman, but pay attention to your receiver. Incidentally, that also applies when you push your cock into somewhere.

Hygiene

If you use dildos with more than one person, it is advisable to use a condom. And don't use both holes with the same condom, so not from anal to vaginal, because the lady in question will really not be happy about that. The risk of a bladder infection or a sexually transmitted infection is then much greater.

Always clean your dildo thoroughly, with a good toy cleaner. You can first rinse the dildo under the tap and then use a good toy cleaner. Store the dildo in a bag so that it doesn't collect dust. Wooden and glass ones are a bit less susceptible to that.

Mistress Moriah

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