Dangerous or even impossible fantasies

“Dangerous or even impossible fantasies“ was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

Over the course of my BDSM life, I have heard quite a few fantasies. One more exciting than the next. Ranging from painful fantasies to full-blown abduction scenarios. Sometimes it seems it can't get any crazier, until you get a phone call and hear an even crazier request. And I'll be honest, I don't find things strange easily, but some fantasies are not one but several bridges too far for me. I want to share a few of those impossible fantasies with you. And just to be safe, a disclaimer up front: Don't try this at home. And perhaps a small extra disclaimer; hopefully you have a strong stomach.

In the boot

Okay, I'll begin with a fantasy that isn't actually that crazy, but that I still don't carry out because the risks (for both parties) are too great. This is the abduction fantasy. And there is nothing wrong with that in itself (in fact, I enjoy working on it) but there is one no-go for me, and that is stuffing someone in the boot of a car. I understand that this heightens the experience even more and that it's a massively hot idea, but... this is downright illegal. The Netherlands is a small and busy country, especially on the roads.

Imagine you're lying in my boot, on the way to the place where I'm going to torture you, and someone with their inattentive head (they were just looking at their phone) drives straight into my boot, where you are lying. The chance that it happens on exactly that day and at that time may not be very big, but it isn't zero either. In an accident the boot offers no protection, which can lead to serious injuries or even fatal consequences for the occupant.

The consequences

Apart from the fact that you won't come out of that in good shape and I'd walk around with guilt for the rest of my life (which I have no desire for), it is also downright illegal. Besides the fine of around 140 euros, there are many more consequences that the sub in his wild fantasy surely hasn't thought about, but which are very important for you to know as the person carrying it out/the abductor!

Criminal liability

As a driver you can be prosecuted for violating traffic rules and endangering the safety of your passenger. Depending on the severity of the injury, this can lead to prosecution for, for example, causing serious bodily harm through negligence.

Civil liability

In addition, you are civilly liable for the damage your passenger suffers. This means you are responsible for compensating both material and immaterial damage, such as medical costs, loss of income and compensation for pain and suffering.

Insurance issues

Breaking the law by transporting people in the boot can result in your insurer refusing to cover the damage. This means you personally bear all the costs arising from the accident.

Sorry, but I don't get very excited by this idea. Which sub is worth this risk? So an abduction scene, fine! Fun! Exciting! Thrilling! But you simply get transported on the back seat, with a mask on your head. Neatly strapped in with the seatbelts.

Exposing someone

That doesn't sound so extreme, and sometimes it is even asked for. Some time ago, for example. Someone sent me a few photos of himself in a precarious situation. With the text: "Oh, I hope you don't put this on X, because then I'd have to pay 150 euros to have it removed as quickly as possible..."

You can gather from this that it's his wish and that he finds it arousing. Easily earned, that 150 euros. Photo online, send a payment request and take the photo down again. Job done. But do be careful with this, because ultimately you have no idea who is sitting on the other side of the screen. It could indeed be the man in question, but it could also be a vengeful ex, or someone who wants to blackmail you, or... It is in fact a criminal offence to do this. And since you can never rely on a handful of pixels, you're better off not taking the risk. Not even for 150 euros, because it can have legal consequences.

In the Netherlands, the unlawful sharing of personal photos falls under the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR). Publishing photos without the consent of the person concerned can be regarded as a breach of privacy, and the person who shared the photo can be sued. If the content of the photo is harmful or offensive, the person concerned can even claim compensation for damages suffered, both material and immaterial.

More info: Who are you to expose someone?

Digital violence and blackmail

Spreading humiliating or harmful images can be regarded as insult. This can weigh particularly heavily if the images in question are hurtful or demeaning. In serious cases, especially if the action is seen as a form of digital violence or intimidation, severe penalties can be imposed. The person who is exposed can bring a civil case and demand that the photos be removed, and additionally claim compensation for emotional or reputational damage.

It can even be seen as extortion. The maximum prison sentence for extortion is 9 years. This applies to situations in which the offence is considered serious. For lesser forms or where there are mitigating circumstances, the prison sentence can be shorter, but it remains a serious offence.

Well... is that 150 euros still so easily earned? Hmm. Look before you leap. It's better to see this as one of the many impossible fantasies. At least, to keep things safe for yourself.

Hunting in the woods

This is a fantasy I was told about years ago. This sub wanted me to chase him through the woods. If you know me a little, you won't see me - even in your wildest fantasy - running through the woods. Fine if you enjoy that, hunt him down like a wild animal by all means, but I'll pass. Anyway, the fantasy went one step further. Once I had caught him, I was to take him to my attic (assuming I have one) and leave him hanging upside down there for a day.

The consequences

In his fantasy this is probably a massively arousing idea but... seriously, hanging upside down for a day? When someone hangs upside down, blood flows to the head with more pressure, which can lead to increased intracranial pressure. This can cause headaches, dizziness and, in serious cases, brain haemorrhages or loss of consciousness. It can put pressure on the lungs, making breathing more difficult. This can lead to shortness of breath and breathing problems. The heart has to work harder to pump blood back to the rest of the body. This can cause cardiovascular problems, especially in people with heart conditions.

For most healthy adults, hanging upside down for a few minutes is generally safe. But longer than five minutes can lead to complications. If someone becomes dizzy, experiences pain or feels unwell, the position must be adjusted immediately to normalise the blood flow. So five minutes can already be crucial. This fantasy therefore really falls into the category of impossible fantasies, unless you want to end up with a corpse in your attic.

The medical procedure

Again a fantasy from a few years ago. I was phoned by someone asking whether I would cut off his foreskin and then force him to eat it... Yes, you read that right. Even in my nightmares I don't come up with this sort of thing. Should this strike you as a bril-liant idea, it is completely illegal and a criminal offence to cut off someone's foreskin without a medical background and a safe medical environment. This can be regarded as grievous bodily harm or even mutilation, and can have serious legal consequences.

Carrying out such acts without the proper medical training also entails great risks, such as infections, serious injury or permanent damage. Even in medical settings, circumcision is subject to strict rules and protocols, and it must be performed by a qualified doctor or specialist with the proper medical equipment and sterility.

So no, this fantasy too absolutely belongs in the category of impossible fantasies. Quite apart from the fact that I find it a distasteful thought.

Coprophilia

This fantasy is much more common, namely playing with poo. Other names: coprolagnia, coprophilia, poo sex, scat or caviar play. Some time ago I received this question again, whether I'm open to it and what the price tag is. And believe me, this was certainly not the first time I got this question. I can't even count them on two hands any more. And they always get the same answer: "No, no, no, no amount is ever high enough". Because enthusiasts are even willing to pay a surcharge for it. Apart from the foul smell and the unappetising sight, eating human faeces can be harmful and carry health risks.

Human faeces contain bacteria, viruses, parasites and toxins that are normally excreted by the body because they can be harmful. Here are some of the potential dangers:

The consequences

Faeces contain harmful bacteria such as Escherichia coli, Salmonella and Clostridium difficile, which can cause serious stomach and bowel problems, such as diarrhoea, abdominal pain and vomiting.

There is also the risk of viral infections, such as hepatitis A or norovirus, which can be transmitted through contaminated faeces.

Human faeces can contain parasites, such as worms or protozoa, which cause infections and damage the digestive system.

Faeces contain waste products that the body has filtered out, and consuming them can expose the body to these toxic substances again.

Health problems

Eating human faeces is therefore quite dangerous and can lead to serious health problems. If you accidentally ingest small amounts of faeces (for example via contaminated food or water), it is important to watch for any symptoms and to seek medical help if necessary.

Even though there are a number of (Pro) Mistresses who do this, for me this fantasy too absolutely belongs in the category of impossible fantasies.

More impossible fantasies

BDSM mostly means "keeping your head about you". Because in your fantasy anything goes and it's all massively arousing, there are no risks there, it never goes wrong there and there is only tension and excitement. But reality is different; in reality some acts can have serious consequences. Think of auto-bondage, breathplay, extreme CBT, even bondage can be done too tightly, cutting off essential blood vessels with disastrous consequences. Or what about an electrical pulse that sends a pacemaker haywire.

Always keep thinking carefully and keep an eye on safety. Stay true to your no-gos and don't go along with someone else's delusion. Some fantasies must above all remain fantasies. And nobody, but really nobody, is worth getting yourself into trouble for.

So should you ever get a request like the ones above, always remember that "No" is a perfectly good answer. Have you come across any more impossible fantasies? Then I'd love to receive them by email! Then I'll collect them for a possible follow-up to this blog!

Mistress Moriah

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Text: Mrs Moriah
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