Findom girls or begging girls, how serious are they? - From the diary of slave Katinka

“Findom girls or begging girls, how serious are they?“ was written for BDSMforyou.nl by slave Katinka.

As a slave of Mistress Moriah, I am on social media too. And I regularly take a look at what is being written. I don't follow that many accounts, but of course all sorts of things still show up in my timeline. Sometimes I am amazed, or rather very often, and sometimes I laugh my head off. Then I see those Findom girls, who I think are probably still at school, shouting all kinds of slogans. They supposedly do humiliation, and they want to drain the wallet of the slave or sub, and they act all tough about it. And then they shout: "I completely destroyed him". "He lost his money and his job". And then the little girl is very proud of it. Whether it's true, I will leave open.

Remarkable

In my eyes that is quite remarkable. Because when you talk about Findom, as a Mistress you actually want your slave/sub to keep his job. And preferably even to make a career, so that he can spoil you even more. Because that is what the whole of Findom is built on. That your slave/sub spoils you with gifts, outings, money and so on. Because what is Findom without finances? Absolutely nothing. These so-called mistresses are after the crumbs, if they are even real at all. Sending a payment request of 3.50 euro for a coffee? One thing I know for sure: my Mistress wouldn't bother for that. She is worth more than 3.50 euro. And if you don't see that as a sub/slave, then you are really missing the mark.

Tributes

Another thing that is trendy among those findom girls, or perhaps begging girls is a better name, is that they ask for a tribute. Asking for a tribute is of course perfectly fine, especially if there are slaves/subs who demand a lot of your time. But to post in your timeline all day long that the pervert or whoever must first pay a tribute to have contact. Well, I have my opinion about that. Apparently the girl didn't get enough pocket money or student finance. I think it's a cheap way of earning money. And shouting all day long that there are so many fake slaves/subs. And yes, of course there are, but there are also fake mistresses. And yes, I am deliberately writing this with a lower-case letter.

A pity

I think it's a pity that slaves/subs are confronted with this kind of findom or begging girls. Unless you choose it consciously, nice and cheap to get a bit of a thrill. That can be a conscious choice too. Until they indeed drain your entire bank account. And you have bad experiences because the begging girl actually turns out to be a begging man, using someone else's photos. Then you have to ask yourself: was cheap not actually expensive in the end?

Because a professional Mistress does cost more than the payment request of 3.50 euro. But if you truly choose Findom, as a total package, then the chance is much greater that you get “real” value for your money. No guarantee, of course. Because good Findom is about getting the right balance between the Mistress and the slave/sub. And that demands something from both parties.

slave anne
Proud slave of Mistress Moriah

Source

Text: slave anne
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