BDSMentoring can be a wonderful step for you too!

“BDSMentoring can be a wonderful step for you too!” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah.

Of course you can book a one-off workshop, for example if you and your partner need a nudge to move forward in your BDSM experience. A workshop can indeed be very good for that. Or when you want to brush up on a specific area of play, or would like to get started as a Pro Domme. A workshop can also be sufficient then and give you a good foundation. BDSMmentoring, however, goes further and deeper. It is a mix of BDSM coaching combined with practical sessions.

Coaching and guidance

But sometimes it can be nice to have someone walk alongside you for a bit longer. Someone you can ask questions about your BDSM experience, someone who can coach you and also guide you and brush up your skills in BDSM (play). Not only in words, but also in deeds. Because "experiencing" can be an important part of acceptance and growth. Just look at small children: they don't develop only by listening to your words. They develop mainly by doing things themselves. After all, how do you explain to someone how yesterday's lasagne tasted? Only by tasting it ourselves can we form a fundamental opinion about it. This applies to Dominants and submissives alike.

We learn not only by talking about things, but also by experiencing them. Growing further in your whole being through play, in word and in deed. With someone beside you who can teach you specific skills, but who also pauses to consider the mental process. Because what do those actions do to you? How do you feel about them? How do they land with you?

Each of them is an important experience that can take you further in a safe way. As a Dominant, as a submissive or as a switch.

BDSMentoring

BDSMentoring therefore goes beyond coaching alone; it is a combination of coaching and the practical side of a BDSM workshop. It is where practice and theory come together to help you move forward. That can be in the area of acceptance, but also, for example, if you want to understand certain deeper layers of BDSM. Or perhaps you want to get started as a professional Mistress or Master and would like someone to walk alongside you for a while, as a little support or for well-founded feedback. Someone who knows what you may run into, because she has walked the path herself.

By whom?

The appointments are arranged by me personally (Mistress Moriah). I am an experienced (BDSM) coach with a great deal of experience within BDSM. I know what I'm talking about and I also know how to reach your deeper layers. Sometimes through conversations and asking the right questions, sometimes through other stimuli. My trainees quickly experience a sense of trust, which makes it easier for them to open up.

The BDSMentoring programme

How long does the programme last? In principle, you decide that yourself. The intake is non-binding, but if after the intake we decide to continue with this programme, you commit to a minimum of 5 coaching sessions. After the five sessions, you decide each time whether a new appointment is made. The course we follow is tailor-made and depends on the conversations we have. You do not commit in advance to a fixed programme. We decide together what the appointments will look like, based on your questions, needs, trust and the progress of the process.

What are the possibilities during a BDSMmentoring programme?

• Kitchen table conversations

• Meetings outside the home (lunch, dinner or coffee dates)

• Regular in-depth (and sometimes confronting) questions (app/e-mail)

• Practical sessions (How does something work/feel?)

Cost of BDSMmentoring

The costs of BDSMentoring are:

The rates stated include VAT and all practical necessities (learning materials). Throughout the programme I am always open to contact by e-mail and app for any questions and/or possible stumbling blocks.

BDSMentoring location

The appointments take place at a central location in Flevoland with free parking and where all forms of play are possible. Coaching conversations and lunch/dinner/coffee dates can also take place in the Den Haag area.

Interested?

If you would like to know more about this programme and/or want to arrange an intake conversation, you can send a message to mrsmoriah@bdsmforyou.nl.

More information

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Source

Text: Mistress Moriah
Photography: Art of Pictures