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Dungeon & products

Build up the pressure with the vacuum pump

Build up the pressure with the vacuum pump. The vacuum pump is a hollow tube with a pump at the top and an elastic pressure ring at the bottom. The…

23 March 2026
Starting BDSM

These hormones play an important role in BDSM

These hormones play an important role in BDSM. Perhaps the dominant thinks he plays the most important role in BDSM, but unfortunately, that’s not…

23 March 2026
Terms

What is vanilla or vanilla sex?

What is vanilla or vanilla sex? You may have come across the term “vanilla” before. Vanilla or vanilla sex simply means conventional sex. In other…

22 March 2026
Starting BDSM

Humiliation, an intense experience of mental pain

Humiliation, an intense experience of mental pain. Humiliation plays a significant role in BDSM, especially for Femdom slaves. Keep in mind, however…

22 March 2026
Dungeon & products

Wheel of pain, pinwheel, or just a small eraser wheel

Wheel of pain, pinwheel, or just a small eraser wheel. Maybe you remember the eraser wheel in your mother’s or grandmother’s sewing box? She used it…

21 March 2026
Terms

What is a zipper in BDSM?

What is a zipper in BDSM? Of course, you’re familiar with the word “zipper,” but in BDSM, it has a slightly different meaning than that thing

21 March 2026
Starting BDSM

24/7 - What does 24/7 mean?

24/7 - What does 24/7 mean? BDSM is a blueprint for your relationship and will therefore vary from person to person and from couple to couple.

21 March 2026
Starting BDSM

What is BDSM?

What is BDSM? BDSM is an incredibly broad concept. But what exactly is BDSM? That’s actually quite difficult to explain. Yes, it’s an acronym for…

19 March 2026
Safety & hygiene

The importance of condoms, even during kinky sex!

The importance of condoms, even during kinky sex! Condoms are much more than just a contraceptive for vanilla sex. Even in kinky sex, condoms play an…

19 March 2026
Dungeon & products

How to use a toy cleaner

How to use a toy cleaner. The most important product in BDSM is often overlooked: the toy cleaner. Okay, I’ll admit, it’s not the most exciting…

19 March 2026